I really wanted to write something about the idea of ‘crossing the threshold’: that is, experiencing the call to action and taking that first brave step to answer it. Whether it is to resolve job issues, or to develop a more authentic way of life, the decision of whether or not you answer this call is really the crux of the personal growth journey.
We all have a calling for vital change that comes into our life from time to time, but more often than not I find that (on their own) people often do not make those changes until things get desperate or the decision is taken out of their hands.
The two main ‘threshold guardians’ I can see which prevent people from taking necessary action are:
Lack of Clarity
Our call to action often comes in disguise! For example:
- The sense that ‘there must be more to life’ (what would that look like for you?)
- A recurring issue that keeps cropping up in your life (what needs to change to let you live peacefully?)
- A pull towards something that is growing in importance to you, but may be at odds with your current life and responsibilities (what is this telling you?)
The sense that ’something isn’t right and needs to change’ is unmistakeable, but knowing what it is and how to make it happen are another matter!
Fear
Yes – the old chestnut. It often feels easier to live an insecure and unfulfilling life rather than face the fear of change, failure or any of the other anxieties that crop up. The thing is – over time the damage caused by a chronic lack of movement and growth can be profound: erosion of self-esteem, decreasing job security, loss of control over your career or life direction, and reduced sense of fulfillment.
To get some forward movement, these two primary blockages must be addressed – by getting a clear idea of what you want, and your strategy for getting there. Along the way (with the right approach and support) any limiting beliefs and blockages caused by fear which crop up can be dealt with. As a basic start on this see my earlier post on ‘Preparing For Adventure’, and also my free newsletter
